The Cockatoo Hollow
Neuroaffirming Deep Dive into The Divergent Breath Modality and Somatic Self Care for ND folk
When I learnt that us folks have a life expectancy that is 50 years less than the average person, a hyperfixation of epic proportions was born.
Since then I have been working relentlessly to be part of the change. I started to work with adults assessing folks that had either been missed or had been traumatised by their original assessment; I am obsessed with joining folks on their exploration of their neurodivergence, honouring their strengths and holding their traumas, and then celebrating their identity with them.
However, what I realised was that - although validating - these late diagnoses lead way to a flood of grief and then the whole new problem of okay cool - but what is autistic culture and how do I bring it into my life? How do I ask for accommodations? What do I even need? How do I advocate for myself? WHAT IS MY BRAIN EVEN GAAAAAAAAAAH.
So I developed The Brain Boss, a quick course on our executive functioning, disability advocacy, and some self care.
But what I’m really excited about is offering an ongoing community; where we can learn to care for ourselves in a way that actually suits our neurobiology.
So I’ve been working my little autistic butt off to create an online community portal, a hub of self-paced somatic self care and live events.
Transformation
As neurodivergent folk, our nervous systems and our anatomy are designed differently. Combine that with our unique vulnerability for complex trauma, many of the wellness techniques and self care strategies recommended to us by mainstream systems are not suitable, accessible or safe for us.
In order to make your transition to Divergent Breathwork I have created a four week course to slowly guide you into the online hub and community membership.
Enrol Today
Here is the four week introductory course:
FAQs
Do you offer any guarantees or refunds?
Yes, we offer a 14-day money-back guarantee. If, for any reason, you find that the course does not meet your expectations within the first 14 days of enrolment, you can request a full refund.
Do you offer payment plans?
Yes. You can do four payments. If you are suffering extreme hardship please contact me for further support with payment.
Do I have lifetime access to the material?
Yes! Once we have finished the live components you will be able to easily rewatch the webinars
What if I can’t attend live?
You will have the opportunity to send in your questions prior to each live webinar to have them answered and then will receive a replay to watch in your own time.
How do I contact customer support?
Please email laura@thetreehousecommunity.org
Am I able to access the modules right away?
The modules will be released for you as we go through the five weeks, this makes it more likely that you will finish the course compared to a fully self paced course.
Can I receive an invoice to use my NDIS funds?
Yes. Please email us at laura@thetreehousecommunity.org
Hello! I am Laura Louise Ó Dubhuidhir (Lou!)
Lou’s Awards and Acknowledgements include:
Runners Up Young Victorian of the Year
Featured on the cover of the Yellow Pages for her community contributions
Norman Grieve’s Prize for Research Excellence (given to the Honours student with the greatest potential to change lives through their research)
Multiple research publications in the fields of traumatic brain injury, autism, and quality of life
Australian Student’s Prize
Lou’s Qualifications and Experience:
Actually Autistic!
Chronically ill
Qualified (no longer registered) Psychologist with Honours from The University of Melbourne
Research with the elite team at the Murdoch Children’s Research Institute and the Royal Melbourne Hospital
Presented my research at The International Society for Autism Research conference in Utah
Worked for The Department of Education and then in private practice with known expertise working with disabled clients
Biodynamic breathwork practitioner
Former Trained ABA Behaviour Therapist
I worked in schools in my region implementing the Severe Behaviour Management Plans I developed
Thankfully I have recovered from the colonised and traumatic way that used to be the Gold Standard and now guide others to work in a deeply nourishing and neuro-affirming way.
When we know better we do better.
Testimonials
Testimonials
Back before social media became a harrowing place for us folks with disabilities and the platform monetised every aspect of our experience I had a really loyal following on Facebook who would come to sit with me while I went Live each day. I would continue about my day, parenting, cooking, farming etc and just spout words of wisdom from my life experiences and my training as a therapist. What folks loved the most was the candid way I brought them guidance and training. They loved to see me “do life”. I bring a calm and peace that does not really speak to the trauma I have experienced and people want to absorb that.
This one time I was speaking about time pressures as an autistic person raising autistic children and how we navigate seasons of grief as folks that don’t “think” and “feel” things the same as everyone else. My child literally smashed a window while I was on live!! Whoops. She was angry because her brother had accidentally done something (accidents are fraught with intensity and overwhelm for us folks to navigate) and she couldn’t react towards him so she turned to the window. I tackled it with calm and congruency, almost forgetting the live audience I had. The response I got to that was overwhelming and folks still speak of it today.
Amy
After an art therapy workshop for disabled folk: “I can see you are truly in your element when you are in front of a crowd teaching.”
Kristy Forbes
“When you and the kids are around you inspire me to be a better parent. You are calm, you are so reasonable, they trust you. And in turn these kids are so resilient, even though I hate that word.”
Rhian
Working with groups: “Your love for them is palpable. Just an observation but I kind of sense your inner child or at least a younger, "truer" version of you when you are with them. Does that make sense? You just seem so light, and present, joyful and really at ease with yourself and who you are, also who you are to them and who they are to you. It's beautiful to witness.”
EK
You have given him the biggest gift, to know who he is
Clare
It couldn’t have been anyone else except Lou
Rhi
Lou gave me a safe place to land when I was adrift amongst a sea of uncertainty, loneliness and exhaustion. We travelled nearly two hours to experience the incredible atmosphere she created with her capacity to hold space for others
Renee
Lou you had such a gentle and beautiful way of approaching this, it felt very daunting and you made me feel as safe as I could
Kirsty
Thank you so much Lou, I appreciate our call today. You made me feel so seen and heard and validated
Ebony
Thank you for being this gorgeous presence in my life, it was such a pleasure to talk to you, you made me feel really safe
Erica
My partner and I had appointments with Lou and I STILL get tears in my eyes when I think about the love & care put into our sessions and the aftercare
Riley
Just received this aftercare package from my beautiful amazing psychologist Lou, what an absolute gift to be diagnosed by you. I will be forever grateful and feel excited to embark on this next chapter of my life
Cindy
Even as a child you were the big hearted one. Paddy was scooped up by your Matriarchy when Greg was dying. You weren't much older than him but you weren't afraid of death & just loved, loved, loved everyone
Gill
You taught her so much and I will forever be indebted to you for that ~ talking about her daughter a decade after appointments with Lou
Kim
Better for having you on our team. Honestly there's times I think how would Lou deal with this. You're my inspo for all things parenting.